people get hurt in life thats the natural order of things,but whos to say that when you dont take a risk you dont get hurt.obviously being burnt so many times in a relationship a person would be wary and whats the defination of an open relastionship? It mite all be a waste of time knowing that even in the future it wont go anywhere, but still rushing head on.I never want to cage the one I care about, but I do act very posesive and thats my weakness.Im da one that ends up doing eveything bad in the end and a part of me feels he should care at least a little bit about us.I know he has been through shit in life,,but there is no future.he deserves a goood life and I really hope he gets it. but one thing I can say he will stand by you through thick and thin, protect you and make you happy, when he feels da time is rite to let someone into his heart,I have to let go